if you're a majority (e.g. whiter, male, more cis, etc.) relative to a person of minority saying "their" slur, it's like a trap card (i've never played yugi magic). No matter how right you are, even if you are 100% correct and it's very obvious, you'll open yourself wide to be accused of being condescending/talking down/whitesplaining/savior complex/running a plantation.
if you're a majority (e.g. whiter, male, more cis, etc.) relative to a person of minority saying "their" slur, it's like a trap card (i've never played yugi magic). No matter how right you are, even if you are 100% correct and it's very obvious, you'll open yourself wide to be accused of being condescending/talking down/whitesplaining/savior complex/running a plantation.
IMO just don't do it.
You should still bully them, just without the slur
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