• zifnab25 [he/him, any]
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      2 years ago

      Idk, man. This just looks like your standard libertarian grift to me.

  • Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]
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    2 years ago

    At first, I was like holy shit 16k to give birth?!

    And then I realized that's the price after insurance :scared:

    • Assian_Candor [comrade/them]
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      2 years ago

      Lotta crunchy types do this, bc they don’t want their newborns having blood samples taken, or vitamin K shots, or don’t believe dying in childbirth is a thing. Antivax mentality as far as I can tell.

      My kid was born with the cord around his neck and basically ripped my wife open on the way out so I’m pretty grateful to have been in a hospital setting :shrug-outta-hecks:

      There’s a reason we do it in hospitals, shit is extremely dangerous

      • GorbinOutOverHere [comrade/them]
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        2 years ago

        A very good friend of mine almost died in childbirth for her first kid and for some fucking reason decided to do a home birth for the second because she doesn't like doctors. I'm glad she's still alive.........

      • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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        2 years ago

        Putting your wife or yourself (depending on who believes in the woo ideology) and child at a huge increase in the chance of dying to open the libs is something else.

        • Assian_Candor [comrade/them]
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          2 years ago

          It’s not even owning the libs a lot of the people who do it are libs, it’s like this weird thing going on with an overlap of yoga and reactionary ideology/purity fetishism. Homeopathy falls in the same bucket

      • Kuori [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        i hope everyone came away safe and healthy <3

        • Assian_Candor [comrade/them]
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          2 years ago

          Yeah it was all routine stuff but outside of a hospital it would have been ugly

          Just think of how many people you know that delivered by C section, either mom or baby wouldn’t be here without that intervention, and we’re talking 2 minutes to get you from delivery to the operating table right down the hall they are on standby

          That’s 32% of births btw

          • Kuori [she/her]
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            2 years ago

            Glad everything turned out okay! Yeah it's wild to me how many people choose to do something that's already incredibly dangerous in the riskiest way possible. Crunchy granola people really ride my nerves with this shit.

      • SerLava [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        God the term "crunchy" to describe a person is so fucking revolting in that context and I can't read it without being completely thrown off, I just imagine this fucking dried mucosal film flaking off from behind someone's ears and hair and neck and it's audible and oh GOD, I know that's not the etymology but I can't not think about it

    • MF_COOM [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      IDK about this person, but the medical system in the imperial core does a lot of work to belittle and degrade certain types of people, especially poor, indigenous, homeless and addicted peoples. Eventually people just begin to feel alienated and seek other options where they're not treated like subhumans.

      Dignity is really important to people.

        • MF_COOM [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          Yeah you raise a good point comrade in that there is a vulnerability to engaging with a health care system that you don't trust to consider you as a human being - a lack of expectation of dignity in this context is also a safety concern

    • MoneyIsTheDeepState [comrade/them,he/him]
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      2 years ago

      Iirc, it can be a fair option in the context of the US under medical guidance

      That is, if it's medically assessed as a low-risk birth (definitely not breech), and attended by a medically competent professional, then the outcomes are equivalent to low-risk births in US hospitals

      But all the home births I've been near were done on principal, with little to no medical assessment, and a doula (or pseudo-doula? Idk) without actual medical training. The people I've seen do them have all been "science is a lie" types

      • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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        2 years ago

        But all the home births I’ve been near were done on principal, with little to no medical assessment, and a doula (or pseudo-doula? Idk) without actual medical training. The people I’ve seen do them have all been “science is a lie” types.

        Yeah exactly

      • Assian_Candor [comrade/them]
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        2 years ago

        I don’t think doulas require any sort of certification, you could advertise as one right now if you want to

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      25 days ago

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  • LaGG_3 [he/him, comrade/them]
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    2 years ago

    I feel bad for this person. A difficult child birth can be very traumatic, but :jesus-christ: you would hope that this situation makes them think "damn, maybe the market doesn't have my best interests in mind"

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      • MoneyIsTheDeepState [comrade/them,he/him]
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        2 years ago

        Both can be true. Calvinist philosophy has been blended into most Protestant denominations in the US, particularly concentrated among Evangelicals. Interestingly, the important mechanisms in Calvinism are also being blended into non-Protestant denominations of Christianity here too

        John Brown killed enough slavers to get a pass from me on all the other stuff, but he was kind of a hot mess. Vicious at punishing his children, abysmal husband, wanted to replace the US with a slightly-better (i.e. no slavery) theocracy, had a hilarious perspective on Harriett Tubman

        He's a fucking hero and I have no doubt at all that his Calvinist beliefs played a role in galvanizing him to action. Unfortunately, it's very rare for it to galvanize people to do anything other than evangelize and ban books

  • daisy
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    2 years ago

    You should have done your due diligence in advance and simply chosen an inexpensive hospital where complications don't happen.

    • robot_dog_with_gun [they/them]
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      2 years ago

      he said "our home birth" so what he should have done was simply chosen a better pairing of gametes that wouldn't turn breach

    • daisy
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      2 years ago

      I'm considering signing up for twitter blue and just very frequently reposting large sections of Marx and Lenin's writing, as much as can fit in the text box, as a bit.

      • Awoo [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        I have considered this too but instead of sections of writing it would be quotes from famous figures that people don't expect. Such as Einstein's thoughts on Lenin.

        If they're going to make blue ticks automatically have visibility at the top of a thread then that can definitely be weaponised with the right content. Parenti posting would work too.

          • Awoo [she/her]
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            2 years ago

            Yeah but if it creates some more communists it's potentially worth it if someone can put up with the feeling of being dirty for the rest of their life.

        • daisy
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          2 years ago

          Oh, those are damn good ideas.

      • dat_math [they/them]
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        2 years ago

        If you are serious about using this to impact future AI: https://arxiv.org/abs/2302.10149

  • OgdenTO [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    "hey you've all already paid for me to be covered through taxes and insurance, but I don't want to use that. Can you please pay again, but directly to me this time?"