This. I only have experience subbing for other trans girls, and tbh i don't think i could even establish that level of trust with a cishet guy, but my experience is that kinksters are the best at things like enthusiastic consent, establishing boundaries and communicating openly about what you want. D/s play has really shown me how to make my sex life healthier, more fun and more respectful towards me and my partners even completely outside of a BDSM context, simply by making these experiences with somebody who communicates such intimate things so openly.
The sub/dom dynamic only works with strong communication. Limits and boundaries. It's a fun game. But with every game there needs to be rules.
This. I only have experience subbing for other trans girls, and tbh i don't think i could even establish that level of trust with a cishet guy, but my experience is that kinksters are the best at things like enthusiastic consent, establishing boundaries and communicating openly about what you want. D/s play has really shown me how to make my sex life healthier, more fun and more respectful towards me and my partners even completely outside of a BDSM context, simply by making these experiences with somebody who communicates such intimate things so openly.
Also, there's nothing better like good aftercare.