Is it someone you see and immediately want to make out with/fuck? Because if I see someone who is aesthetically pleasing/interesting, I make the decision to try to get to know them as a person before I escalate things further. And I’m starting to think this is atypical because my track record isn’t great.

Is that just a long-winded way to describe an average crush? Does it vary from person to person?

  • Vampire [any]
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    1 year ago

    It's usually better to make the physical connection without excessive stalling. Otherwise it grows to exaggerated proportions.