Is it someone you see and immediately want to make out with/fuck? Because if I see someone who is aesthetically pleasing/interesting, I make the decision to try to get to know them as a person before I escalate things further. And I’m starting to think this is atypical because my track record isn’t great.
Is that just a long-winded way to describe an average crush? Does it vary from person to person?
It varies i think. Some people I see and want to fuck, sometimes it takes time to build. Though honestly I just don't have crushes anymore. Like I can see someone and recognize attractive features or a personality I can vibe with, but I don't really develop feelings of any kind.
I suppose this is me as well. Like don’t really feel much for them besides a sense of interest that I get from other things I find interesting