Is it someone you see and immediately want to make out with/fuck? Because if I see someone who is aesthetically pleasing/interesting, I make the decision to try to get to know them as a person before I escalate things further. And I’m starting to think this is atypical because my track record isn’t great.
Is that just a long-winded way to describe an average crush? Does it vary from person to person?
It's starts with attraction, that's the foot in the door, so to speak. But there has to be more to it than that for it to be a crush. Personalities have to gel, they have to be interesting and take some kind of interest in me back. Then it's a crush