Is it someone you see and immediately want to make out with/fuck? Because if I see someone who is aesthetically pleasing/interesting, I make the decision to try to get to know them as a person before I escalate things further. And I’m starting to think this is atypical because my track record isn’t great.
Is that just a long-winded way to describe an average crush? Does it vary from person to person?
Most of my “crushes” as I get older stem from the fact that I meet someone in passing who seems cool, but then they just kinda disappear. I’m convinced this wouldn’t really happen if I had a social life offline