Is it someone you see and immediately want to make out with/fuck? Because if I see someone who is aesthetically pleasing/interesting, I make the decision to try to get to know them as a person before I escalate things further. And I’m starting to think this is atypical because my track record isn’t great.
Is that just a long-winded way to describe an average crush? Does it vary from person to person?
If it is too big of a deal it is an indication that you've gotta be more normal.
Basically, don't let crushes get beyond like, a little infatuation without either acting on it or shutting it down depending on what is appropriate