(can't post link currently as their site is down again lol)
Not only did they not differentiate gender between cis and trans, it also came out that they're like 80% white and they instantly got into a struggle session because the admin said that number was "unfortunate" can't make this shit up lmao
De googling is hard, try going in small steps, replacing 1 service at a time.
Biggest thing stopping me is that I want a reliable, redundant, highly available and durable cloud storage for my documents
I considered setting up a home server once but I don't have experience setting up any servers or infrastructure from scratch myself and I'm not sure if I wanna spend hundreds of hours and thousands of dollars doing it
Nextcloud is good, if money is your biggest concern you could use a VPS & be paranoid about encryption.