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  • Retrosound [none/use name]
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    1 year ago

    Fun fact: even 'she' is a new pronoun in Mandarin. It used to not even exist. All people were 'he'. In fact, a lot of baby girls didn't even get names. They were just called 'sister #5' or something, and then they got married off at 15 and never saw their parents or brothers again.

    • kristina [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      tbf that was common in a lot of countries. in rome septimius just means 'the seventh one', lot of people were named that, there were also female ones like nona, secunda, octavia, etc.

      germanic and slavic countries would often name kids by the day they were born on, which was typically named after a god. so a person born on Thursday would be named Thor or Thora and so on

      generally it was a good practice to not get too attached to your kids back then, way too likely that theyd die

        • kristina [she/her]
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          1 year ago

          It was the girls who got numbered, since Chinese culture valued boys over girls

          if you could provide what those names are id be interested in knowing, i kinda doubt that it would be only for girls

          • emizeko [they/them]
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            1 year ago

            one of the classics of Chinese literature, Water Margin, opens on a character called Gao the Second because he's the second son of the Gao family (but people gave him the nickname "Gao Qiu" or Gao "the Ball" instead)

            • kristina [she/her]
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              1 year ago

              thinking-about-it

              I always am a little sussed by anything that could give even an inch to xenophobia, thanks for proving that once again the Chinese are like everyone else

              • GaveUp [she/her]
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                1 year ago

                I mean Chinese society was shitty in similar ways every other society was shitty until 1949

                • kristina [she/her]
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                  1 year ago

                  yes, but there are many similarities, people like to only highlight certain negative aspects of other cultural groups to otherize them, and a lot of times those negative aspects are over exaggerated or outright false.

    • UlyssesT
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      18 days ago

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    • CliffordBigRedDog [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      That numbering thing is not exclusively for girls

      But a fucked up common name for girls was 招娣 Which literally means "seeking younger brother"

      The implication is that they're hoping their next child was a boy