Are you depressed ? Talk to your friend about it. Are you depressed because you can't afford your mum's treatment ? "Don't come to me for money bruh". It frustrates me no end when I see this nonsense about not mixing finances with friendship. The lack of material understanding of suffering is so apparent in that stupid advice. Friends should exist not just to offer a shoulder to cry on, but also to lend a crutch when you have trouble walking. What conception of friendship puts one of the main drivers of despair and helplessness (financial troubles) outside the bounds of cooperation. Pretty sure the first person to say these words was a feudal lord to a peasant with whom he would otherwise enjoy a nice drink and lively conversation.
To any of my Toronto based chapos, if 100 bucks in cash can help you with something, I will be more than glad to give it to you.
To be fair, me and my friends never "loan" or "borrow" from each other, we have each other's back. Shitlib wisdom is correct for the wrong reasons. Don't loan/borrow, help each other.
There's a very ancient concept of loaning/borrowing between friends for the purpose of never completely paying it back. Some tribes in Africa today would be offended if you paid back a loan completely because it means the end of the relationship. If you overpay the loan or underpay it, the implication is the relationship will continue.
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I understand what you're saying with not looking at it from lending/borrowing pov, but as helping, but the shitlib wisdom one ups you with "don't mix finances and friendship"
Ah yes, the 69th Rule of Aquisition. How could I forget?
I'm still pretty sure the saying is explicitly about things like giving someone a business loan or some shit. It's that a person whose a good friend isn't always the best business partner.