Yeah no, fuck that shit. Not going to be lectured about how we should handle woman haters with kid gloves because they can't handle rejection.

Like holy shit apparently getting rejected is only hard for cis men and it's really fucking important. Guess what, it sucks for women just as much. Women get rejected too, but no one cares. Hell, no one even believes it because that sexism runs deep. Wait, actually no it sucks more for women because dating isn't just putting your pride on the line, it's risking assault and verbal abuse everytime too. Oh but on top of that they get to hear from incels (and the media) about how easy it is for women to date. But again, no one gives a shit, because they're women, so who cares.

Meanwhile everywhere you look the media is discussing "Oh these poor frustrated young men. What a crisis. Oh those mean feminists! What do we do?" Because shit that's just silently accepted as normal for everyone else to go through is apparently a crisis if it happens to a cis dude.

I'm not going to accommodate a scratched misogynist any more than I would a scratched liberal.

  • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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    16 days ago

    And, like clockwork, someone uses this post to center the concerns of cis men again

    • CrawlMarks [he/him]
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      16 days ago

      I am not centering it. I have nothing to useful to add in terms of non-cis male experience. We don't like them either and I was trying to express unity and support. What would be a better way to express the fact that no one likes or benefits from these type of people? I know I benefit from patriarchy and I have to work against that in my life. This is a separate case from that I feel. This is a diffrent more sinister thing.

      • MiraculousMM [he/him, any]M
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        16 days ago

        I have nothing to useful to add in terms of non-cis male experience

        If you have nothing useful to add it's better not to post at all tbh

      • AOCapitulator [they/them, she/her]
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        16 days ago

        As a cis dude I am caught up in this despite me not wanting any part of it.

        I was trying to express unity and support

        you what? lmfao how did you figure that was a way to express this

        • Midnight_Pearl [any, comrade/them]
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          16 days ago

          what the fuck is wrong with you? nobody even implied that. go smuglord yourself.

          the problem is that any time someone posts a thread like this, cis guys always show up to play victim or virtue signal about being the exception. nobody cares, it doesn't help, it's not solidarity, and not wanting to see that shit in these kinds of threads isn't silencing poor innocent cishet men.

        • Verenata
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          16 days ago

          I'm straight dick bean jerma-finger

          yeah! the one bit of good i can do here arriving after the barney 😂