• Verenata
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    14 days ago

    What are they like?!

    Mine loves me to be dominant but I'm just not a natural dom lmao. I'm so bad at it cos I get so embarrassed aubrey-embarassed

    I absolutely hate it aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa but we do our best 💅

    • Slavoj_Zuckerberg [none/use name]
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      14 days ago

      Have you tried grabbing their hands and doing the "why are you hitting yourself" routine? Now you both feel silly. think-about-it

      • Verenata
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        14 days ago

        Lmao I did that and it "killed the mood" catgirl-hiss

      • Verenata
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        14 days ago

        Yes!! But he hates the ticklyness of anything in or near his ears so if I do bite them it's more a playful "give me attention" thing.

        I have however nia-smug found that doing that cringe uwu daddy slutty soft voice near his ear is like the sweet spot of i guess something adjacent to what you mean? Like some tickle from my breath bit not enough to just be tickling. But I also can't do that when trying to be dominant lmao.

        I think I've found my cope though, i just channel my embarrassment into being dominant and it apparently comes across "like some weeb tsundere anime girl who's disgusted with her classmates trope" but I'd say he's the weeb for knowing what that trope is big-honk

        Also fr I fucking knew this thread would get spray-bottle at the start but like sans-shrug

          • Verenata
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            14 days ago

            No you've said exactly what my bf says and I am finding out how much fun I can have being in charge using my submissiveness i guess? It's all a big learning experience which is nice and I think it definitely feels more intimate than past relationships because of it.

            Lmao its fine with me but I'm also not entirely sure on the rules lol.

            Not without warning, but it feels pretty good to have a big sensation like that

            Omfg I was mouthing of being a brat once and he without warning took the side of my face off and like waow....

            I think my biggest hurdle is controlling someone's body, cos of my own experiences the idea of doing that to someone else is kinda road block for me atm if I think about it like this so I have to reframe it.

              • Verenata
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                14 days ago

                I want to learn if I can 💪 and I've found a way for now so that's cool for us as a couple.

                Lmao you too!

    • someone [comrade/them, they/them]
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      14 days ago

      I'm so bad at it cos I get so embarrassed

      It's always absolutely hilarious watching someone inclined towards subbing trying to dom. Like watching a puppy trying to intimidate a big calm dog.

      • Verenata
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        14 days ago

        Noooooo stttoooppppp I knew it would be!!!

        Erghhhhhhhhhhh. There's been so many times I've just missed and said something just mean because I don't know how and it's like oh sorry aubrey-embarassed

        Or that time i slapped waaaaay too hard 💀 I'd never done it before!!!! eviscerated

        Like watching a puppy trying to intimidate a big calm dog.

        This has been said irl yes doomjak