My dad is a passive aggressive narcissist who doesn't believe in modern medicine, constantly draws attention to himself like a petulant child who needs constant attention (this includes chanting to himself while I'm on work calls), and has tried multiple times to start his own cult. He has stage 4 cancer because he refused treatment and has been living with me for a year because he's too sick to be on his own but not sick enough to go into hospice care.
I literally wish for him to die on a daily basis.
This isn't me trying to one up you. I'm just letting you know, I know what it's like to have a mentally and emotionally unstable parent. If you ever want to vent to someone who understands, feel free to PM. Some days I could go on for hours about how much I resent my dad.
I know this is less than ideal to think about, but I wish when I was your age I had some sort of risk-mitigation plan in place for my father. You do not want your psycho dad living with you in your 40s.
I used to think that way. You might have to tell him to kick rocks when the time comes. By the way, there's nothing wrong with that but I didn't have the heart to do that to my dad, and just let him die on the streets.
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My dad is a passive aggressive narcissist who doesn't believe in modern medicine, constantly draws attention to himself like a petulant child who needs constant attention (this includes chanting to himself while I'm on work calls), and has tried multiple times to start his own cult. He has stage 4 cancer because he refused treatment and has been living with me for a year because he's too sick to be on his own but not sick enough to go into hospice care.
I literally wish for him to die on a daily basis.
This isn't me trying to one up you. I'm just letting you know, I know what it's like to have a mentally and emotionally unstable parent. If you ever want to vent to someone who understands, feel free to PM. Some days I could go on for hours about how much I resent my dad.
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I know this is less than ideal to think about, but I wish when I was your age I had some sort of risk-mitigation plan in place for my father. You do not want your psycho dad living with you in your 40s.
Have a plan.
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I used to think that way. You might have to tell him to kick rocks when the time comes. By the way, there's nothing wrong with that but I didn't have the heart to do that to my dad, and just let him die on the streets.
Granted, I kind of regret that decision now.
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When everyone shows up to your funeral with buckets of concrete lol
dang cheeto
Pretty sure my dad has early onset dementia but he is cogent enough to text me long screeds about Chinese slaves. Fucking rules.