I get it. If you’re cis, then you haven’t had to think about pronouns much if at all since they just assigned them to you at birth and happened to fit you enough you didn’t notice.

When you’re trans, you have to remove a false gender and shift into the one you really identify with. Some people have always known their true gender, some of us just know what we had didn’t work.

That’s why we give so much of a fuck about things like pronoun tags on a website. We live this shit every day.

Edit: trying to make my comment more general. Take this as just my experience.