i see what you mean about the second part of the post, i'm certainly not trying to shit on anyone for that (not that you were accusing me of that, i just mean i appreciate the insight)

i agree with the "as an x, y, z" thing. it just always comes off as some sort of cope or something when someone says that. to me that's what really got me about the post. i was a single millennial at a point too, but i was one that had heard of fruits and vegetables.