There is a spector haunting Lemmy, the spector of trans people that disagree with you.
Liberals on Lemmy are ridiculously fast to let fly all sorts of conspiracy theories if it means discrediting any trans people to the left of them. Worse still, is that this behaviour is reinforced by Lemmy mods, look at this ban Cowbee copped for the crime of being allegedly uncivil to this transphobe:
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Every day, I'm glad for you fuckers building at least this tiny queer safespace on the internet. Death to the cis, etc.
"How dare those trans people cause their own transphobia instead of just sucking it up so we can maintain decorum with people who violently fantasize about hurting them!"
If it's such a small, niche issue, then why the fuck can't you just tell reactionaries to fuck off?