gender is socially constructed. saying that you prefer "natural born women" is exactly like saying you prefer people who weren't "born a criminal"

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    the takes on this board get worse everyday...
    gender is socially constructed, but our bodies and sexual attractions to them aren't. transition may change your body, but not for everyone and pretty much never to the point where it's comparable to cis people. if someone doesn't like a certain kind of genitalia that doesn't make them transphobic. stop pushing this delusional shit, it's textbook ammunition for terfs

    -> inb4 "age is just a number and those are socially constructed as well"

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      Accept that you don't know what every trans person body looks like and that trans people transition differently.

      stop pushing this delusional shit, it’s textbook ammunition for terfs

      Fuck you, lmao. All terfs need is to see a trans woman calling herself a woman to spread their filth.

      Edit: remember how you got banned from main by saying the n word and the r slur. Who would take you seriously?

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        Accept that you don’t know what every trans person body looks like and that trans people transition differently.

        pretty sure that we all have non-cis genitals in common. that's a reason to not date us for like 90% of the population. also, srs is still really shitty, especially for trans men. if you find a way of changing that, ping me

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        Edit: remember how you got banned from main by saying the n word and the r slur. Who would take you seriously?

        also, you seem to think i'm rachel, that's not the case

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          No girl, it was the vegan post on main. You said something along the lines of "This is why I still call people the n word" and so. Since then I don't take you seriously and I won't take you in good faith (sorry). You compared anorexics eating animal products to a disabled person with a slave, I made fun of you for not using cocaine as a more honest and similar example.

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              What do you have with the n word that you say it everytime

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                if i said "r-word" people might mistake it for "r*dditor"

                this is also just some dumb american shit, if you don't live there you can't keep up with all the a-z-words at some point. like is the f-word f*ggot or fuck? why not just call things by their name

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                  Watch this: "This is like still using racist and ableist slurs while claiming to care for these issues". Amazing, right. Anyway, go fuck yourself.

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                    you must be fun at parties. wait until you hear i usually call myself a tra​nny :trans-heart:

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                      You said you're a trans woman, therefore you can reclaim it. Lemmy won't let you tho. Go post it on Reddit or something.

                      But damn, what parties do you go that you need to say racist and ableist slurs?

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                        referencing a slur is not the same as actually using it. in most parts of the world people recognize that difference.

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                          in most parts of the world people recognize that difference.

                          Hmm, are you sure they don't just want to say slurs without feeling bad?

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      stop pushing this delusional shit

      this is literally taught in sociology classes how is it fucking delusional lmao. terfs have been anti science forever, of course its ammunition for them.

      inb4 “age is just a number and those are socially constructed as well”

      i mean literally yes, doesn't mean its okay to have sex with kids tho. pretty shitty gotcha.

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        this is literally taught in sociology classes how is it fucking delusional lmao

        they taught you genital preferences were a social construct? perfectly acceptable to ignore? do you have any idea what would happen if i tell people irl not liking (my) dick is transphobic?

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        It's not a shitty gotcha, it's transphobia. Why else blame trans women for terfism and compare trans people to p*dophiles? Fuck them.

        "Trans cult":

        trans supremacist cult community

        i pray to ksenia every night

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          and, because this site is so not-transphobic, it's the top voted reply in this thread :thonk:

          but make sure that when you call attention to it, you really take the time to take care of cis feelings - their egos are rather fragile.

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            not liking dick is transphobic

            hmmmmm, why could 3/4s of LGBT not like this statement? do you live under a rock or something?

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                because this shitshow of a thread is the age old "genital preferences are transphobic" bullshit. literally everything else can be changed by transition, but genitals kinda stay the same. some people still like to pretend genitals don't matter. spoiler alert: to pretty much every monosexual cis person they do

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                  SRS is literally the oldest surgery we perform. wtf do genitals have to do with attraction to trans people?

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                      1. cis people don't know how good srs is or isn't.
                      2. srs still sucks for trans men but it's gotten decent for trans women over the years.
                      3. apriori judgement of a whole category of people on the basis of a quality they may or may not possess is definitionally prejudicial. if you don't know whether you're attracted or not until you've looked at someone's genitals, that's one thing - assumptions about what their genitals look like is something else entirely.
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              Are you gonna bring out the "Gay means homosexual. And homosexual means same sex attracted, not gender" dogwhistle now?

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                no, attraction is based on your perception of another person, so gender is the only relevant thing there. but humans aren't blindly following their attractions and when they learn that your genitals don't fit their preference, they usually decide against daiting you.

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                  I guess that one's too on the nose for Miss "I say slurs during vegan debates", huh.

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          someone doesn't know who ksenia is...