damn that's a hell of a year even by 2020 standards, I'm sorry people have been behaving in really fucked up ways to/around you, that's hard to deal with and really sucks a lot :/ hope things look up for you soon, comrade <3
fwiw, definitely agree that your mom fucking your little bro's best friend is extremely fucked up given she's known him since he was like 5, that's a really messed up power dynamic, especially since it's not like a 19 year old is established enough of an adult to be on relatively equal footing with someone in their mid-late 40s/50s/60s. yikes.
Thanks. I think the hardest thing is coming to terms about my mom. Thank you for validating me. This is a mindfuck for me because she severely physically, emotionally and verbally abused me as a kid. Hell I’m 27 years old now and I can’t even get access to my birth certificate, social security card or passport unless I go through her. It’s all very bizarre and gross and I don’t know exactly how to get out of this. So I tried to form a new type of relationship with her and then I find this out. I probably should get back into my hobbies. I like writing and painting. I’m not as good at painting but it’s very calming and writing is what I’m better at.
damn that's a hell of a year even by 2020 standards, I'm sorry people have been behaving in really fucked up ways to/around you, that's hard to deal with and really sucks a lot :/ hope things look up for you soon, comrade <3
fwiw, definitely agree that your mom fucking your little bro's best friend is extremely fucked up given she's known him since he was like 5, that's a really messed up power dynamic, especially since it's not like a 19 year old is established enough of an adult to be on relatively equal footing with someone in their mid-late 40s/50s/60s. yikes.
Thanks. I think the hardest thing is coming to terms about my mom. Thank you for validating me. This is a mindfuck for me because she severely physically, emotionally and verbally abused me as a kid. Hell I’m 27 years old now and I can’t even get access to my birth certificate, social security card or passport unless I go through her. It’s all very bizarre and gross and I don’t know exactly how to get out of this. So I tried to form a new type of relationship with her and then I find this out. I probably should get back into my hobbies. I like writing and painting. I’m not as good at painting but it’s very calming and writing is what I’m better at.