Literally just title, I wanna know if being a commie and being into crazy shit is related

Remember:

No minors or mention of them

Don’t talk about illegal shit

Don’t dox

  • Wmill [they/them]
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    4 years ago

    A term I heard and I want to avoid doing is treating others like a kink dispenser. Maybe the only thing holding me back other than nerves right now is covid since I really can't risk getting my family infected.

    • HereInRobotHell [they/them,comrade/them]
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      4 years ago

      Well, obviously wait for covid, but there may be online munches you can dip your toes in

      If youre self concious about seeing people as a kink dispenser you'll be okay. Just remind yourself you're there to make friends and learn from people, any other benefits are secondary

      • Wmill [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        Online munches I'll have to look into it them. Friendship ain't so bad. I know it might vary but what do you think the political leanings might be for members on those sites. A lot of my humor has been affected by my decent leftward and I tend to make a lot of leftist jokes and I stay away from anti-pc edgy types.

          • Wmill [they/them]
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            4 years ago

            Gonna have to travel a bit since it's pretty conservative where I live but that might just be the boomers, their kids may or may not be different so will feel my town out.

            • HereInRobotHell [they/them,comrade/them]
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              4 years ago

              It entirely depends. I know some conservative areas have super prog scenes, and some conservative areas are really into cuckoldry with a racial element. It is a mixed barrel.

              • Wmill [they/them]
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                4 years ago

                Both might work for me then. Never gave cuckoldry too much thought but I've been told I got a Jesus Christ kind of look with my long hair and bread and being medium skinned Mexican american. Might see about losing my virginity first in a safe environment before I jump into any deep waters that I might regret.

                • HereInRobotHell [they/them,comrade/them]
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                  4 years ago

                  dude don't let yourself be taken advantage of by racial fetishists just for sex

                  Kink community isn't safe, but it is also a good place to learn negotiation and communication stuff that will help you in relationships and sex

                  • Wmill [they/them]
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                    4 years ago

                    Shit you're right. Need to not let hornyness do the thinking. Part of me knows it will be unfulfilling. Maybe I should hold off a bit until I mature more. Take it slow and easy with boundaries. Not that it makes it better but there are a lot of conservative Mexican american types that are super religious too where I live.