Every now and then I'll think back to the libbest thing a lib ex did. She had a conservative friend who she used as her token example of how people of all stripes could just get along. She was somewhere between Warren and Bernie but hated how angry my politics were compared to the nice red hat she knew. They had been friends for a decade and even if they disagreed they could keep it civil. About six months after she told me about that red hat and refused to listen to my criticisms of it, he was at a dinner party with her and her black best friend. He got drunk and yelled the n-word at the best friend. :surprised-pika: