I'm a cis dude, but only bc that's what is easiest. If everyone were to collectively decide I was no longer a cis dude I wouldn't care. I don't really have preferred pronouns but I usually just do he/him cause I don't really care and that's what I present as. I should probably just consider myself agender, but again that seems like too much effort, so eh.
words are a fuck, but the way I understand it is that trans = non-cis (as in being a different gender than the one assigned to you at birth), justified by this idea that all trans people share this contradiction between their assigned gender and their real gender. Of course, not all enbies call themselves trans or would consider themselves that way, but that is how I see it.
Oh ok, gotcha. Words are indeed a fuck