I'm a cis dude, but only bc that's what is easiest. If everyone were to collectively decide I was no longer a cis dude I wouldn't care. I don't really have preferred pronouns but I usually just do he/him cause I don't really care and that's what I present as. I should probably just consider myself agender, but again that seems like too much effort, so eh.

  • PapaEmeritusIII [any]
    ·
    4 years ago

    I’m agender and I feel more or less the same way you do. I haven’t really declared myself not a man or a woman, seeing as how I’m mostly in the closet. One day I just realized that describing myself as agender makes a lot more sense to me than describing myself as my AGAB (assigned gender at birth).

    • evilgiraffemonkey [he/him]
      ·
      4 years ago

      Interesting. When people refer to you as your AGAB, is in some way uncomfortable/negative?

      • PapaEmeritusIII [any]
        ·
        4 years ago

        A little bit, yeah. But not enough for me to want to deal with coming out of the closet.