I'm a cis dude, but only bc that's what is easiest. If everyone were to collectively decide I was no longer a cis dude I wouldn't care. I don't really have preferred pronouns but I usually just do he/him cause I don't really care and that's what I present as. I should probably just consider myself agender, but again that seems like too much effort, so eh.
Nice to know I'm not the only woman to feel this way. Although I imagine trans women have it even worse with that extra pressure to pass. Societies expectations are bullshit sometimes, sigh.