It makes me so mad/sad that this is the modern reality for relationships. At the same time my self esteem is skyrocketing because of all the likes like a casino with bright lights and big numbers but the whole thing feels cheapened. I know there's more valid reasons to this besides the fact that idk how to text matches but I'm blanking
Are you on the fem side of things? It sucks for everyone. If you're on the fem side it seems a bit easier, but you still have to wade through all the likes. The app forces you to judge people before ever meeting them and it's cruel.
Surprisingly I'm a pretty masculine looking dude but yeah the whole looking at someone and deciding off of that is very dumb
Why? You can read their bio and assess their vibe off pictures.
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