It makes me so mad/sad that this is the modern reality for relationships. At the same time my self esteem is skyrocketing because of all the likes like a casino with bright lights and big numbers but the whole thing feels cheapened. I know there's more valid reasons to this besides the fact that idk how to text matches but I'm blanking
I swore off it when the pandemic hit because a) just got out of a long term relationship and wasn't anywhere near emotionally there, and b) terrified of getting the covid, but I'm kind of dreading and looking forward to getting back on at the same time. The confusion of whether someone is there for dating or hookups (like I like both but not knowing is disorienting) and the awkwardnes of just opening a convo with a stranger always made it kind of weird to use. But then on the other hand, I really am ready to date again, like this pandemic shit is a bummer 😕