It makes me so mad/sad that this is the modern reality for relationships. At the same time my self esteem is skyrocketing because of all the likes like a casino with bright lights and big numbers but the whole thing feels cheapened. I know there's more valid reasons to this besides the fact that idk how to text matches but I'm blanking

  • BookOfTheBread [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    I think hobby clubs are basically the only non work or internet ways to reliably meet people as an adult outside of your current circle. This goes for friends or dating. I've met a few good friends this way and would encourage it.

    • grey_wolf_whenever [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      I've met friends sure, but hobbies are playing music and rock climbing, both of which are skewing male. Music is tough, because theres girls there, but they will just rightfully assume you're a creep, since almost every guy in music seems to be? Sorry now Im just bitching about my social skill 🙅‍♂️