What I meant that his physical looks have nothing to do with it, am straight and definitely find myself checking him out, but that maybe he has intimacy issues and doesn't want to look for someone. I might be projecting but maybe he got somethings he needs to work through that are to difficult so instead goes this route. I've been struggling with my own growth but as I get through it feel stronger and satisfied.
What I meant that his physical looks have nothing to do with it, am straight and definitely find myself checking him out, but that maybe he has intimacy issues and doesn't want to look for someone. I might be projecting but maybe he got somethings he needs to work through that are to difficult so instead goes this route. I've been struggling with my own growth but as I get through it feel stronger and satisfied.
He clearly doesn't give a fuck and he seems happy. What more does he need to work through?
Hearing more about him I take back what I said, seems cool.