If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it's time for some introspection.

    • DonCheadleInTheWH [any]
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      4 years ago

      Do people realistically have that much agency over their libido? Like at some point, if you don't get that visceral response from someone, you can't really force it.

        • DonCheadleInTheWH [any]
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          4 years ago

          Well what if you're able to have kids with one, and not the other, or just not into the plumbing? As identical as they may appear at first glance, there's more to it than just that.

            • congressbaseballfan [she/her]
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              Lmao. Best shitty take yet. “I won’t have a relationship with you because you won’t go through the immense pain and suffering of bearing MY child, or you don’t have the right plumbing” same stupid proud boy shit. God damn that’s gross

              Edit: damn I’m an anti-Natalist now because of that take.

              A few minutes later: after consideration, I am an anti-anti-anti-Natalist.

                • congressbaseballfan [she/her]
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                  4 years ago

                  I meant along the lines of “this person has a vagina but can’t reproduce”

                  Genitalia as an attracted to or not attracted to is totally fair, though I am sure some would disagree with me.

          • gay [any]
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            4 years ago

            Me when I have to take potential partners to get sonograms in case they don't have healthy reproductive organs so I know if we should fuck