not wanting to date trans women stems from y’all not viewing them as “real” women... so yes your “preference” is transphobic.— destiny (@MAM1SHAMPOO) July 1, 2020
If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it's time for some introspection.
This is true, but not acknowledged as such. I don’t happen to like lady dick, because I don’t like any dick and but I like ladies. And trans ladies are ladies.
that's literally what everyone is talking about here in the comments rn
calling someone transphobic because they don't want to date someone with genitals they're not attracted to is idiotic as fuck and makes us look like lunatics, it's not "preference", it's sexuality and it's fixed
yes there's straight men who are still attracted to women if they have a penis but that's not the case for most
That’s a different argument and I agree with that. Some people like dick and can’t stand pussy others see it the other way around. I believe what OP is referring to is simply taking into account could you date a trans person if they fit every other standard you have, in which case it’s probably transphobic to say no to.
in a case like that yea i would agree with it being transphobic
i just seriously hate the opinion that genitalia is just a "preference", i feel like it's basically like a woke version of "being gay is a choice" and it makes me uncomfortable as fuck
This. I hate sounding like a terf by saying I don’t like penis, but that’s what the fuck my body says. I feel like Terfs (particularly in the UK) use the genitalia preference as an excuse for saying trans women are not women, and it’s particularly insidious
not dating post-op trans women? sure, that's pretty shitty
but not dating pre-op/non-op trans women isn't transphobia, you can't pick your sexuality
i hate this struggle session so much
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This is true, but not acknowledged as such. I don’t happen to like lady dick, because I don’t like any dick and but I like ladies. And trans ladies are ladies.
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I don’t think genitals were mentioned though?
that's literally what everyone is talking about here in the comments rn
calling someone transphobic because they don't want to date someone with genitals they're not attracted to is idiotic as fuck and makes us look like lunatics, it's not "preference", it's sexuality and it's fixed
yes there's straight men who are still attracted to women if they have a penis but that's not the case for most
That’s a different argument and I agree with that. Some people like dick and can’t stand pussy others see it the other way around. I believe what OP is referring to is simply taking into account could you date a trans person if they fit every other standard you have, in which case it’s probably transphobic to say no to.
in a case like that yea i would agree with it being transphobic
i just seriously hate the opinion that genitalia is just a "preference", i feel like it's basically like a woke version of "being gay is a choice" and it makes me uncomfortable as fuck
This. I hate sounding like a terf by saying I don’t like penis, but that’s what the fuck my body says. I feel like Terfs (particularly in the UK) use the genitalia preference as an excuse for saying trans women are not women, and it’s particularly insidious
im kinda confused why the user above got banned lol, kinda makes me feel like im walking on eggshells
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Did I get banned? Lol
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No lol i meant the person above u
I see. I live another day to spread liberalism and good cheer
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