Its debatable up until "Neither of us eat until you get that can of beans open", thats when its flat out abusive, not just forcing your 9 year old to struggle with something on the threat of withholding food, but also putting the guilt of withholding food from others if she doesnt do that task that she literally doesnt even wanna do.
Its debatable up until "Neither of us eat until you get that can of beans open", thats when its flat out abusive, not just forcing your 9 year old to struggle with something on the threat of withholding food, but also putting the guilt of withholding food from others if she doesnt do that task that she literally doesnt even wanna do.