Obviously both would come as a shock, but weirdly, I'd feel way more comfortable handling the drug addiction because I could relate to it and empathize more. Meanwhile, I'd struggle to remain intimate with someone fumbling to explain how they thought hurting others was okay at any point in time.
Yeah, I take it we're in a community of empaths who emerged from the womb with complete enlightenment and have never diverged from the path.
Or just a bunch of hypocrites.