this used to tank my mental health so bad, just constantly feeling guilty cause im not working and achieving shit like my peers, but then i realized that it's all bullshit and you can just enjoy your life instead
dont get me wrong, self-improvement is important, but hustle culture is toxic as fuck and makes people feel like shit about themselves. some people dont give a shit about careers and ambitions and just want to vibe
I have colleagues that were surprised when I told them that I didn’t spend the holidays writing code for side projects, as that’s all they had done. Some had their spent time off doing extra work.
These people have children. What an awful state of affairs.