No, I am absolutely not blaming feminism as a cause for the rise of MRA stuff, what I am saying is that it is used nowadays as a strawman by the alt right, regardless of truth. They'll pick actual misandrists as examples of your average feminist, and tell others : "look, they wanna take your benis". And it works.

Again, if you have a better solution without ditching the term or whatever, then I am all ears. I find it somewhat unsurprising the term has been picked up by the shitheads, but regardless of names or whatever, the underlying issues absolutely remain for both men and women, and I sometimes wish feminism would have far better optics. Try as a man, to call yourself a feminist (which is my case), and see other men's reactions, they will generally be mixed in some circles such as work or family.