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  • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]
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    4 years ago

    I've had I've never had a casual sex relationship that went for any length of time, so I don't know if there's some kind of secret trick.

    More likely the answer is self-knowledge. Some people thrive on casual sex and some don't. You learn this about yourself and seek out relationships accordingly.

      • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]
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        4 years ago

        One nice thing about getting older is that you have a better sense of who you are. It's easier to say well, I may not necessarily love these things about myself, but that's the way I am, so there's no point in worrying about it. Some things about the self are mutable and some are not. It's not so clear which is which at first.

        On the other hand, I just found out I'm starting to lose my hair and my back is fucked up so, y'know, it's a mixed bag.