• _else [she/her,they/them]
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    oh team sports with like logo'd teams are jingoistic as fuck and terrifying. but im saying not-for-profit leagues are fine. maybe good, even, i dunno i have questions and im not settled.

    it's the myth of the individual separate from their material conditions, of having longer legs or a harder jaw or getting fed more milk early or having more time to work out young or epigenetic fuckery that tweaked their muscle growth to be just a little more or all the things. the point being that trans people in sports is the problem, but at a high level; literally anything that gets you a win is in the same category of 'problem', and people get so upset about it because it exposes that basically everything that makes an athlete win (usually drugs) is kind of the same fucking thing.

    • Wmill [they/them]
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      4 years ago

      Related side note, there is a channel on the youtube that talks about non-profits and how they still make a lot of money. Another slice it's called.

      Back to discussion, getting kind of sleepy rn now. Hard to think would it be okay to continue the later need to wake up in 4 hours.

        • Wmill [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          Sorry just checking I didn't know about this until like a month ago btw.

          • _else [she/her,they/them]
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            4 years ago

            ah. ive been woke-ish long enough that im jaded and spiteful and filled with more disdain than optimism, so I dont try to educate people so much anymore.

            i guess I don't respect people enough to tell them how they're wrong anymore.

            • Wmill [they/them]
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              4 years ago

              Sorry once again guess I'm out of my element in this one. This conversation was enlightening though so thanks again.

              • _else [she/her,they/them]
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                4 years ago

                nothing to be sorry for. this was me apologizing for my crass phrasing.

                we await you on the island of "I don't respect humanity enough to correct it anymore".

                • Wmill [they/them]
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                  4 years ago

                  No need to apologize sounds like you've been through more shit then I can imagine, being angry makes sense. If or better yet when I get to that island hope we can curse at the world together. Solidarity comrade :heart-sickle: and :trans-heart:

                  • _else [she/her,they/them]
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                    4 years ago

                    doesn't make "yeah I already knew that stfu noob" any less crass or more excusable.

                    • Wmill [they/them]
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                      4 years ago

                      Still, don't care I'm a big boy I can take it. We all need some love and understanding. Peace out comrade. If you ever need to vent I'll be here making bad puns and the like.

                      • _else [she/her,they/them]
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                        4 years ago

                        perhaps, but there are standards of decency I should hold myself to, because if I don't who that, I occasionally pretend to respect for the sake of not having to do gross stuff, will?

                        • Wmill [they/them]
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                          4 years ago

                          Guess I'm trying to stick to what I originally said about not lashing out and using empathy. It would have been easier to yell but feel like this route created an empathetic connection that wouldn't exist otherwise. Still I respect what you said about standards just wanted to let you know no barriers were formed on my end, that I didn't take it personal. Gonna take a nap now, hope you have a good day.

    • Wmill [they/them]
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      4 years ago

      On your earlier point might be best to experiment and start a struggle session on doping in sports and remove the question of our trans comrades to see if the same level of discussion arises. Maybe wait a bit once the current one dies down or something idk. I do think you have a point but wanna see this theory in action.

      • _else [she/her,they/them]
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        but that's the thing; it's not worth the struggle session. i feel like this is settled. trans people are a scapegoat so sports can go on and keep being deeeeeeeeply problematic and fucked. ive thought this for over a decade; i don't think anyone's going to convince me otherwise.

        maybe some of the more cerebral sports have non-biological differences in their high level competitors? fencing or chess or-oh right chess is gender segregated fucking still. so maybe its all bullshit? like, literally all of it?

        my assessment: trans women are a scapegoat. gender segregated leagues in things where there isn't clear biological advantage (basketball, because height is so important. shooting bec-wait what? yes really.) are a sybolic altar where we venerate the essential nature of biology and gender and the inferiority of ~50% of the population.

        becuase the thing is never about what it's about. we don't live in a world that capable of honesty or shallow in its fuckery and awfulness.

        • Wmill [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          Sorry if I offended but see your point. Competitive sports are weird as hell. There seems to be a whole nother side of this that I didn't know of. Didn't know chess was segregated. This gave me a lot to chew on so thanks for this.

          • _else [she/her,they/them]
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            4 years ago

            chess. and shooting. SHOOTING! IT'S LITERALLY ABOUT EYESIGHT AND FINE MOTOR CONTROL! unless you're using, like, a cannon.