I guess one thing I feel weird about. On the old sub I actually made a connection with someone. We kinda jokingly horny posted and then chatted and then formed a long distance thing. We were both adults living in places where we were kind of isolated as leftists. And it was nice. We did some sexting and chatting and it was a good thing cuz I think we were both depressed and horny at the time. We eventually drifted apart because we both meet people irl. I’m glad it happened but I also sort of get how a really toxic version of it could arise in the same circumstances. So maybe in the macro sense it wasn’t the healthiest thing.
Yeah I kinda feel the same way too.
I guess one thing I feel weird about. On the old sub I actually made a connection with someone. We kinda jokingly horny posted and then chatted and then formed a long distance thing. We were both adults living in places where we were kind of isolated as leftists. And it was nice. We did some sexting and chatting and it was a good thing cuz I think we were both depressed and horny at the time. We eventually drifted apart because we both meet people irl. I’m glad it happened but I also sort of get how a really toxic version of it could arise in the same circumstances. So maybe in the macro sense it wasn’t the healthiest thing.
That's cool! You shouldn't feel bad about it. But we should evaluate what kind of horny is potentially harmful to some of our users and future users