Big brain take: maybe they're bi and find a certain set of genitals attractive? Like, they're into trans men (who haven't had bottom surgery), cis women, and post op trans women, etc.
But given the context it sounds like they're using vaginas as a shorthand for cis women...not a good look.
If they’re using vaginas as a shorthand for cis women though…no.
I am not. And I get the apprehensive response because of the amount of transphobia, but that doesn't make it bigotry to not like dick. If a woman or man has a vagina. I'm into that. trans woman included. But I find this policing of sexual preference really awkward and a bit weird. What I like in the bedroom shouldn't be something I have to defend. what the fuck.
Big brain take: maybe they're bi and find a certain set of genitals attractive? Like, they're into trans men (who haven't had bottom surgery), cis women, and post op trans women, etc.
But given the context it sounds like they're using vaginas as a shorthand for cis women...not a good look.
I am not. And I get the apprehensive response because of the amount of transphobia, but that doesn't make it bigotry to not like dick. If a woman or man has a vagina. I'm into that. trans woman included. But I find this policing of sexual preference really awkward and a bit weird. What I like in the bedroom shouldn't be something I have to defend. what the fuck.
The problem is noone fucking asked. Its like randomly announcing you have a preference for white people.
Weird at best, dogwhistling at worst. Dont use Terf language ffs.
Thanks for clarifying! I think the added context here is important because like you said, it's a sensitive issue.