The complaint is that those vegans are just too damn alienating so I guess I can’t go vegan.

Literally point to a single person who has said that unironically. We make both of those points ("vegans are annoying" and "I can't/won't go vegan"), but we have never connected them ("vegans are annoying therefore I won't go vegan"). Seriously, link me a single comment saying "I won't go vegan solely because vegans are annoying" unironically.