The only joy in my day at the moment is listening to California Soul by Marlena Shaw or Hit Or Miss by Odetta. Bored of vidya. Bored of chatting to girls. Working out has become a chore. University assignments are a struggle. Life's dull to say the least.

    • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
      hexagon
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      4 years ago

      Chat. Go out on a date. Tell the same jokes I always do. Fuck around. Move on. Repeat. Just feels formulaic at this point. Maybe it's time to start thinking about something more long term.

        • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
          hexagon
          ·
          4 years ago

          give it a shot

          good to have experienced it before settling down imo

            • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
              hexagon
              ·
              4 years ago

              well what am I doin bucko

              it's all practice

              ye get the hang of it after enough attempts

              • carbohydra [des/pair]
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                4 years ago

                I think I used up my attempts. Or more like everytime I make an attempt, that's one more person who can pass along the info that I am a pathetic loser weirdo. :agony:

                • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
                  hexagon
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                  edit-2
                  4 years ago

                  sounds like all the more of a reason to keep trying

                  not like it can get worse lol

                  no but on a real note I doubt anyone's passing that on, and the good thing about tinder is that you'll never meet your fuckups, so it's live and let live even if they do think you're strange.

                  • carbohydra [des/pair]
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                    4 years ago

                    It can get worse though. Trying and failing is way more devastating than not trying at all, and the failures pile up, which usually is a sign that things really aren't working.

                    If I ever had anything interesting to talk to people about, I've forgotten it. This isn't just about dating either.

                    Sorry for hijacking your thread with doomer shit. I don't expect you to solve my problems but I appreciate trying ♥️