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    • HornyOnMain
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      1 year ago

      Honestly like I made that big post about cooling it to avoid defederation and while I still think Ada is working in good faith the fucking 196 mod is just a complete radlib "anarcho"-mccarthyist pos, like leaking DMs is such a dick move, I'm kind of split between disliking some of the users for pulling shit like that and a degree of respect for the head mod for trying to build some trans solidarity despite all the shit she's had to put up with from her users and many of the more dunk hungry users on here

        • HornyOnMain
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          1 year ago

          Having read Ada's actual mod statement on the third hexbear defederation thread I feel like and hope that maybe it'll work out but honestly at this point I kind of doubt it

          • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]
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            1 year ago

            on the third hexbear defederation thread

            Let's be real, if we had 3 active meta threads dedicated solely to blahaj.zone and mostly filled with people shitting on them, would they still be federated with us?

            Idk why we need to treat them like extra special little babies so they'll do us the favor of associating with us. Fuck em

            • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
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              1 year ago

              Its because we really want to be in solidarity with them as a trans community. But unfortunately some of them are really taking advantage of that. I completely agree we shouldn't be the only ones making concessions. The person accusing us of being fake queers absolutely 100% should have been banned.

              • Kuori [she/her]
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                1 year ago

                Its because we really want to be in solidarity with them as a trans community.

                the sad reality is that as much as we want this, there is no solidarity to be had with liberals.

                  • Kuori [she/her]
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                    1 year ago

                    no, you're right. but that's the thing: jokes aside, we used to be liberals. i wouldn't count the support i showed the trans community as a lib "solidarity". it was a liberal show of support (which can still be heartening to see!) but it's not solidarity of the sort that exists between comrades. (i'm sorry this is about as clear as cement but i can't effectively communicate what i mean any better bc blob-no-thoughts )

                    • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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                      1 year ago

                      You made sense. It's like "thoughts and prayers" vs systemic solutions.

            • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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              1 year ago

              I get what you are saying, but at worst we are getting new membership and allowing the libs to provide a live showing of how they are ultimately incapable of solidarity. I think it makes sense to sometimes support things because they will fail, like the USSR trying to join NATO to demonstrate that NATO was anticommunist and would reject them.

          • silent_water [she/her]
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            1 year ago

            she posted an update saying she'll give it a week and put up a vote, so I'm pretty sure we're getting defederated.

            • kristina [she/her]
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              1 year ago

              she'd really be better off just axing 196 rather than splitting the trans community. but yeah if it goes to a vote its gonna be gone, all the transphobes that have been left unbanned are gonna love to rig that up

            • Tastysnack
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              1 year ago

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        • HornyOnMain
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          1 year ago

          the mod for 196 posted this https://hexbear.net/post/361826 but then it was removed by a mod rather than deleted by the person who posted it so idk, maybe there's some internal tension among the blahaj moderators about how to act regarding hexbear

          • kristina [she/her]
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            1 year ago

            god the thread there with @Nakoichi@hexbear.net is just so wild. people give him shit here for being an anarchist but the 196 libs give him shit for being a tankie

            no winning, friend agony-yehaw

          • good_girl [she/her, they/them]
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            1 year ago

            Every thing I see Moss do pushes me further and further away from 196. Ever since that stupid fucking incident where they defended a user being blatantly chasery/transphobic to the point that Ada had to step in.

            Their actions just scream incompetence, and I'm convinced they're a 16yo that got in way too deep with a community the size of 196

            • HornyOnMain
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              1 year ago

              they defended a user being blatantly chasery/transphobic to the point that Ada had to step in.

              ok wtf, why? what happened?

              • good_girl [she/her, they/them]
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                1 year ago

                There was a post on lemmy.world/c/memes or something that posed the question

                Straight men are you attracted to women or femininity

                and a user responded (and i'm paraphrasing a bit here, but not by much)

                I'm attracted to boobs and vagina, if a trans man is pre-transition i'll still fuck

                Which obviously set off some red flags. The discussion drifted over to 196 and then moss responded by posting this:

                spoiler

                Show Here

                The whole thing lead to a post full of genital preference discourse and that's never fun.

                  • AbbysMuscles [she/her]
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                    1 year ago

                    196 was built and inhabited exclusively by chasers and pick-mes. Purging them would mean deleting the instance comm, so yeah they should do that as soon as possible please

                    Actually come to think of it, my view of 196 from its very earliest reddit-logo days was of aggressively lib, imperialist, status-quo upholding shitheads. Just full of chasers and younger femboy types who were either absolute pick-mes or just young'ins trying to fit in. In their worldview, all rights have been achieved and asking for anything more is radical and nonsensical. Just weird fetishists and their enablers. They're genuinely disgusting people.

                    • Rom [he/him]
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                      1 year ago

                      I remember r/196 being pro-V*ush and getting really upset any time I called him a pedo and pointed out all the pedo shit he says, so this tracks. Not sure if this has changed with their migration to blahaj but I doubt it.

                    • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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                      1 year ago

                      196 was built and inhabited exclusively by chasers and pick-mes.

                      It was my impression that there was also a fair number of very young trans people who couldn't really be said to know any better

                    • HornyOnMain
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                      1 year ago

                      younger femboy types who were either absolute pick-mes or just young'ins trying to fit in

                      That was me and yea, basically

                • kristina [she/her]
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                  1 year ago

                  shocked-pikachu i cant believe that all the transgender people calling 196 chasers were correct, by jove

                      • Rom [he/him]
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                        1 year ago

                        And using it as an excuse to denounce communism even though Cuba has better literacy rates than the US, lower homelessness, more doctors per capita, and lower infant mortality rate, all despite the embargo.

                • kristina [she/her]
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                  1 year ago

                  frankly you should make this a separate post in the dunk tank, cw it for transphobia