spojler

This is a cry for help

Any success stories in leaving The Bad Site once and for all?

  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    9 months ago

    having irl trans friends who understand a bit about that space and wont mind if you talk about it

    Where are these people? I mean, this thread obviously, but having /tttt/ in my background makes me feel like an abaolute freak in any queer space. Having to explain skull size anon, or agp jokes or whatever if I'm having a weird day. It would be cool to have more people who can go "yeah that shit was awful"

    • frankfurt_schoolgirl [she/her]
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      9 months ago

      It totally depends on where you live and stuff, but in my expiration the majority of 20 something trans women who transitioned as adults are at least somewhat aware of /tttt/ "culture". The problem is that these people aren't the most likely to be found in standard queer spaces (which is too bad, we should be!). I mean the way I made my current friends was by dating them, breaking up, and staying friends after, which is not a very efficient process, would not recommend.

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        9 months ago

        I am thankfully not interested in dating former /tttt/ users :) Surprisingly enough though I can count on one hand the amount of people I've met in discord servers (I do not ever go outside) who I did not have to explain it to...