if you call everyone dude and a transfem person gets mad about it, don't get defensive. just say like "sorry, i won't do it again" and don't argue "actually it's gender neutral" or "i call everyone dude". even if you do, i guarantee she's heard that argument from someone who very much does not call people they see as women dude. i certainly have
same goes double for the word guy.
Anyone care to share thoughts on bruh and bruh moment?
cos the root is bro, right? Bruh seems like it could be hurtful, but a bruh moment is almost its own thing
About as offensive as bro. Yes, i'm aware that it's often not even used to adress somebody directly, idgaf, just don't.