I'm skeptical if the concept of "TDOV" or "Trans Rights!" even includes me.

It absolutely does and I'll throw hands with anyone who says otherwise. Oppressed people will never win our freedom and dignity by betraying our own or others to our oppressors. We'd only get temporary superficial acceptance while we're useful. Not that I'd want to anyway.

I hope you find a good chosen family IRL to celebrate and be yourself with. Angels deserve family too.