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  • machiabelly [she/her]
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    3 months ago

    I'd be pretty skeptical of assuming bi people will treat you well. Sexuality isn't a great indicator. I've had bi people revert to heteronormativity the moment they realize I have a cock. I've had bi people who are attracted to my masculine presence and broad shouldered 6'4 stature who had no desire to treat me like a woman. And basically everyone expects me to take the lead.

    In my experience lesbians are a bit more reliable but not so much that I feel automatically safe around cis lesbians.