I feel a little weird about terms like "girlkisser" or whatever now. Like yes, certainly, I love it when women but also uh, my wife, nonbinary goth from the void. I kinda feel like some of the gendered lesbiany terms don't adequately summarise anymore. Which feels kinda weird, because I've already settled on busting the term "lesbian" backward to include all the people I might be attracted to who aren't binary women.
I feel a little weird about terms like "girlkisser" or whatever now. Like yes, certainly, I love it when women
but also uh, my wife, nonbinary goth from the void. I kinda feel like some of the gendered lesbiany terms don't adequately summarise anymore. Which feels kinda weird, because I've already settled on busting the term "lesbian" backward to include all the people I might be attracted to who aren't binary women. 
Wifekisser
You know I don't mind, I know you're affectionate and are genuine. I don't want it to stress you. I'm a relaxed smudge on existence
You fuckin' rambunctious gay!!! This applies to more situations than just referring to you!
But also thank you for your input!!
You have to break the conditioning
They are just labels
I know but you have asked me and I felt bad that it seemed to be buggin ya