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  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    6 months ago

    makima-huh I want to believe this was a cool and interesting concept but I sense that the framing might be of the gawking variety. Still might have helped my stupid ass as a kid somewhat, instead of just going on /d/ or whatever the hell.

    thonk-trans I guess there are several potential motivations behind and variant approaches to petplay though, now I think about it...

    • Thallo [she/her]
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      6 months ago

      Yeah, you're half right about the gawking. I think, by it's nature, the people who funded the shows were like "let's film some freaks" and the people watching the shows were like "let's gawk at some freaks"

      HOWEVER, I remember the shows themselves being pretty respectful to the subject matter.

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        6 months ago

        See I hate that, the idea that some slimy fucker thought to bankroll... basically a cringetopia/kinkshaming type television program? Suspect. I suppose long before the 'net though, if the shows themselves were solid about it then they would have served pretty well.

        • Thallo [she/her]
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          6 months ago

          Yeah, I mean, it was pretty dire. People older than me literally learned it from porn mags that they had to steal and hide. I imagine that was worse.

          I got super lucky and had the most goated sex ed teachers in middle school. You could legit ask them anything about sex, and they would answer.

          sex

          One time a kid asked her what cum tasted like, and she legit described it to the class. Can you imagine having the guts to describe that to a room full of middle schoolers?

          • ashinadash [she/her]
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            6 months ago

            Woah that is hardcore as hell. Shouts to the kid for having the gut to ask too, lmao. I would have never asked teachers anything about sex, my mind pre-baptised with cursed shit beyond their comprehension blob-no-thoughts

            • Thallo [she/her]
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              6 months ago

              Baby Ashina: so what do you think of forcefem mindbreak inflation petplay? nia-smug

              Based teacher: Actually, Ashina, the history of that subculture goes back to... lea-happy

              Baby Ashina: nia-you-what

              • ashinadash [she/her]
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                6 months ago

                That would be based, except at that age I had no idea what forcefem even was blob-no-thoughts

              • magi [null/void]M
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                6 months ago

                You'd be surprised at some of the cursed things she knows lmao Then again I've seen some shit myself madeline-smug

      • rayne [she/her]
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        6 months ago

        I learned a lot from that show as a teenager. A lot more than from porno mags, sex ed, or skinamax soft porn.

          • rayne [she/her]
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            6 months ago

            One of those episodes (the sex therapist having the husband slow down and caress his wife all over her body) was practically a vaccine for all the toxic sex messaging I had as a kid. I'm really grateful for that :)