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It can be incredibly difficult for anyone on the ace spectrum because there's a lot of variety and a lot factors in to things.
For me personally, I don't get anything out of looking at people, I see beauty and if someone was attractive but that's it I don't feel anything else. I don't get arousal outside of a relationship, I am demi. I also have some sexual repulsion outside of a relationship too..
Yeah, it’s weird when it used to be completely different though. It’s also weird figuring out what I think I’m allowed to think in a (former) young (lesbian) relationship.
"what I think I’m allowed to think"?
When one has intrusive thoughts one can imagine another person would be disturbed by them having those thoughts. Basically, it feels like disrespect for random thoughts of sex to appear about someone who’s not into penises, even though it wasn’t about that, idk. Maybe OCD.