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  • Tomboymoder [she/her, it/its]
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    2 months ago

    I might be developing a fear of men.

    cw: assault

    I keep having nightmares were some strange man I don’t know wants to do things to me and they are too strong for me to overpower them.

    • Tomboymoder [she/her, it/its]
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      2 months ago

      I think I put too many points into Half-Life.

      my psyche is like

      “men want to harm you and you are a 5’3 estrogenized boygirl thing who cannot stop it!!!!!” de-half-light

      • magi [null/void]
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        2 months ago

        I have a presence that I've had men back off..

        I'm always wary of people though

        • Tomboymoder [she/her, it/its]
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          2 months ago

          My presence is letting a dude sexually harass me for half an hour hoping he will take the hint or get bored and walk away yea

          • magi [null/void]
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            2 months ago

            The guy wouldn't last a few seconds with me, but it's valid to have fear of men.

            cw abuse

            spoiler

            I was abused and bullied

            so I've had to stand up for myself most of my life, so I can stand my ground.. I learned to project my presence because of my upbringing, I don't fear people but I'm wary y'know..

    • rayne [she/her]
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      2 months ago

      I've only started social transitioning and am having that same fear. My plan is to take some women's self-defense courses with my girlfriend. And to do it soon.