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  • Thallo [love/loves]
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    4 months ago

    She's been grieving the death of her son she said

    It's fucked up, but this is an incredibly common reaction from parents. It's not necessarily indicative of where she'll be a year from now.

    When I first told my wife, she didn't handle it in a great way (imo). But after some time has passed, we're closer than ever.

    I've been talking to my friend from my hometown about transition, and he said "man, I'm sad I never got to say goodbye to [deadname]" and I'm like, "I'm still alive, asshole lmao"

    He's 100% supportive, too.

    • Wake [she/her, they/them]M
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      4 months ago

      My husband had a similar reaction when I initially told him. Like your situation, we're now so much closer than we've ever been. Hopefully my mom will get there too.